1. Intro

So this past Friday night, I was approached by two more BBW. As I’ve said before, I know that I am not Mr. Studley, however, I am attractive enough to where I don’t have to bother approaching chubby women at all if I don’t want to, as I know that I will get approached by them at least once every night or two that I’m out. In turn, this places me in a unique position where I get to see things that other men don’t. I get to be in a position of being hit on fairly often, and this gives me a general idea of how plus sizw women who get hit on all of the time feel when a man approaches them. Getting back to what I was saying, I was approached by two more women that I ended up walking away from. I’m not a difficult guy to pick up, however, there are certain things I do and don’t like when a woman is attempting to pick me up. Since a lot of you guys are always asking me how to approach women, I’m going to go through what these girls did when they were trying to pick me up to give you an idea of what women are probably thinking when men approach them.

2. brief rundown

OK, so let me give you a brief rundown of what these busty girls did, and I’ll explain what they did right or wrong: 1) First, these BBW stood in my general area. 2) They asked me if I had a light. 3) Before I could respond, a guy who was talking to me immediately started talking to them. 4) After about thirty seconds, they walked around him and introduced themselves to me. 5) I introduced myself and one of the chubby girls complimented my industrial piercing. 6) One of the girls introduced herself again. 7) They just kind of stared at me while smiling. 8) I told my friend that I had to go to the restroom. 9) I never returned. Alright, so upon first impression, it looks like I was just being a jerk. When a girl does this to you, you sometimes think that she is a bitch. Now I’m going to go through this again, and tell you what was going through my head and give you a few of my thoughts. This should help you to understand why I walked away, and why women sometimes walk away from you when you approach them:

3. First, these girls stood in my general area.

When these BBE stood in my general area, I KNEW that they wanted to talk to me. I’ve been hit on so much that I’ve learned to recognize this. Almost every time a girl hits on me, she will grab one of her friends, and come stand near me. If I don’t talk to them, they will talk to me. There’s nothing wrong with this, but it did send me the signal that whichever girl wanted me was scared to approach me alone. Had she approached me alone, I would have been a little more compelled to stay and talk to her.

4. They asked me if I had a light.

This part, I didn’t mind. I knew that they were making an attempt to hit on me when they asked me this. I don’t even smoke, and I didn’t have a cigarette or a lighter. There were plenty of other people smoking around me that they could have asked, yet they chose to ask me. When a girl hits on me, I don’t mind generic opening lines, as long as they aren’t cheesy. BBW tend to use the same four or five pick up lines on me, and I don’t mind them at all, AS LONG AS THEY HAVE SOMETHING TO FOLLOW IT UP WITH. With that being said, the best pick up lines that chubby women have used on me were all very shocking. In other words, if a woman talks to me when I’m surrounded by other oversized women, if she really wants me to focus in on her, she should say something very shocking to me. A few weeks back, a girl said something to me, and I burst out laughing. She had caught me completely off-guard and I wasn’t expecting her to say it. Sure enough, I made sure that I called her the very next day simply because I thought that she was very original.

5. Before I could respond, a guy who was talking to me im...

I don’t know this guy, but he knows me. I don’t even know his name. What he does is kind of desperate, however, as far as they know, he is a part of my group. As such, they should respect him if they are hoping to win me over.

6. After about thirty seconds, they walked around him and...

So this was their first major screw up. Every girl that has gotten me has always been very respectful to my friends, even if they didn’t like them. They might have said something along the lines of “I think your friend is hitting on me”, but they were always very respectful towards them. I think that what these busty girls did was just flat out rude. They just kind of left him hanging, and walked around him to get to me. If these girls were smart, then they would have used him to get to me. I feel much more compelled to talk to a girl when we have some kind of common friend or when a common friend introduces us. I’d talk to them out of the respect I have for the common friend that introduced us. Asking him to be introduced to me would have bought them time with me.

7. I introduced myself and one of the girls complimented ...

Like I said before, I’ve heard this a million times, and as a result, it goes in one ear and out of the other. There’s nothing wrong with a compliment, but coming from a stranger that wants something from me, it doesn’t hold a lot of weight. Generic compliments are very forgettable coming from a stranger. However, if a woman has something to follow it up with, I am much more likely to believe that it is genuine and that she’s not just saying it because she wants something from me. I think that the best thing a woman can do is compliment something about my personality. I always remember those BBW.

8. One of the girls introduced herself again.

I thought that this was kind of odd, because another girl did the same exact thing the day before. This doesn’t hurt the girl, but it kind of makes me question why she did it. Does she want more attention? Does she think that I didn’t hear her the first time? Does she not remember introducing herself to me because she is nervous? Who knows? It may not hurt her, but it isn’t exactly helping her either.

9. They just kind of stared at me while smiling.

At this point, I am like “OK?”. They just stared at me and didn’t have anything to say. By this point I am already agitated by how they treated the other guy. And on top of that, I am bored with them because they have been very generic thus far, and haven’t said or done anything that would actually make me want to get to know them. Again, they’re not doing much wrong, but they aren’t standing out either. Why would I want to get to know them over the last busty girl that approached me? They seem to have forgotten that THEY APPROACHED ME, and not the other way around. This makes it their responsibility to talk to and try to get to know me. I’m not going to do their work for them. They interrupted the conversation that I was having with my friends; therefore they better have something to say. It doesn’t have to be anything spectacular, but they should at least keep me interested in them. The previous curvy girl that I was talking to had me laughing the entire time and made it really easy for me to talk to her, so why would I be interested in these newer girls after such an encounter with a plus size girl where everything seemed to just click?